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  1. Subject: some after thoughts to our meeting
  2. hi daren ,
  3. i enjoyed our lunch together yesterday and believe we made a good beginning .
  4. you have very high standards for your own performance and are highly
  5. committed to the best outcome in all situations . you are likely to have high
  6. expectations for results from our coaching meetings this a good formula for
  7. success and i will do my best to honor your strengths with a focus on moving
  8. the action forward . with this in mind , i had some thoughts and additional
  9. questions for reflection following the meeting that i would like to share .
  10. you are in a transition from being a high team performer to becoming the
  11. leader of a high performing team . one of your frustrations as leader is
  12. that members of your team seem to rely too much on you to solve problems
  13. that arise in the day to day operations of the team . at first you responded
  14. to their requests for help by solving it for them , then you shifted to using
  15. questioning techniques to have them solve the problem with you . you have
  16. also offered some training to address the learnings needed to be more
  17. independent problem solvers . you are frustrated when some members of the
  18. team continue to come to you with questions they should be able to solve and
  19. when they fail to implement changes that you have trained them to use . you
  20. are seeking ways for the the team to have the same problem solving ability
  21. that they come to you for . you have recruited people with this ability and
  22. you seek to expand it in the team .
  23. this issue was the focus of our first session and needs to be the focus our
  24. next meeting . the question is : how to engage the team in solving this
  25. problem . how do i get the members of this team to own this responsibility
  26. and begin creating their own solutions ? what resources are needed by each
  27. person to contribute more to this problem ? how do i involve the team members
  28. more in the solving of this problem ? what new behaviors do i need to employ
  29. to increase the involvement of the team ? what do i need to change in myself
  30. or my relationship to the people in order to engage them more actively in
  31. the problem ?
  32. there is one dimension that i am clear about . i know that you have used
  33. performance appraisals to give feedback . have you put this issue before the
  34. team as a whole for the team to solve or have you tried to change individual
  35. team members ?
  36. i look forward to our meeting on the 17 th . keep growing !
  37. mike
  38. teamleadership center
  39. mobile : 713 - 598 - 6732
  40. office : 713 - 871 - 8326
  41. fax : 713 - 871 - 1707
  42. home : 409 - 321 - 0680
  43. mam @ teamlead . com