Subject: happy birthday ! ! ! daren , i contend that a person should be given their birthday as a paid holiday . however , i know that the likelihood of your being off work during bid week is extremely slim . i hope that you have a great day anyway and a great weekend with your precious family . we ' ll give you a call this evening or over the weekend to extend our birthday greeting ( and so sally can sing to you ) . we are so looking forward to seeing you , tonya , cole and jake next weekend . we ' re disappointed that you will not be able to come until the weekend but are grateful that you are willing to share your family and allow them to come a few days early . we will certainly enjoy our visit with them . thank you for being the wonderful husband and best friend to tonya that you are . it gives sally and me such joy seeing tonya highly honored and loved by you . you are a wonderful father too and it ' s so apparent the bond of love that you enjoy with your sons . they watch your every move and hang on your every word . we ' re so very proud of you for being the spiritual leader of your family , for being such an outstanding provider for their every need , and for putting up with the " outlaws " . in addition to our friendship , i love you as my own son . again , happy birthday . david